Secondary school
We met in our secondary school. Back then we were classmate for two years but weren't close.
I used to hate her in my Sec 1 and 2 because i misjudged her. During the first week of school , i was with a friend that i just knew . We were fine until she came along and introduce herself to my friend and completely ignored me the whole time when i was sitting just beside my friend . I felt offended by her action. She makes me feel like i'm not worthy to be friends with.
I used to hate her in my Sec 1 and 2 because i misjudged her. During the first week of school , i was with a friend that i just knew . We were fine until she came along and introduce herself to my friend and completely ignored me the whole time when i was sitting just beside my friend . I felt offended by her action. She makes me feel like i'm not worthy to be friends with.
That's when the cold war started (for me). I was distance towards her and always try to avoid her. There was once when she approached me and confronted me about my behavior towards her. Being a coward and not wanting to start a fight, i told her i didnt have any issue with her. To make it up to her , i even attended her birthday bash and that's the start of something .
On 15 september 2012 , my dad was diagnosed with colon cancer at stage 4. I was with her at that point of time. I received a call from my youngest sister telling me the bad news. I broke down instantly. She comfort me the whole time. I ruined her birthdays celebration. I went back home after cal
ming myself down. I didnt want my dad to see me as someone whose weak and can't handle hard situation so i when back without showing a sign of weakness. He was known for his fierce and strong willed character. His tough when handling matters and i wanted to show him the exact same thing. I cant be weak when his weak.
Sadly on the 13 December 2013, he passed away living his family alone. We were struggling and that's how Nia come to the picture . I needed a job at that point of time and i asked her for help as shes currently working part time at a fast food stall. She approach her manager and that's when i started working with her . Slowly i became very close to her. LIKE REAL CLOSE! She give me the support i need . She motivate me to do well. She never backs down when i push her away (especially when i'm mad) She's there from the start . Never thought that one girl i take as an enemy was actually my true friend in the end. The one that i thought was my lasting buddy left. That's when i realize she's is someone important in my live.

Share with me how did you met with your bestfriends:) I would love to know how your story goes.
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